Wednesday, July 29, 2009

ma MOM......ma PAPA......


MOM........one of the most wonderful phrases in the world...........she is the one who keeps us secured and safe for 9 months in her stomach even though we thank her by giving her morning sicknesses and mood swings........we thank her even more by kicking her.......even though we do this she feels sooooooooo happy.......why?she is the only one who understands us without us speaking out.....when we kick her before we are born she understands that we wanna get out soon........


PAPA........one more wonderful phrase......after we are born they name us.......they nurtures our delicate body......they loves us unconditionally........they loves us despite however we look.......they are the ones who cry for us when we get sick or are sad........they laugh with us and are happy when we are happy.....now we thank them by being cranky and acting like spoilt brats.......we thank them by crying a lot.....still they love us for what we are.........


we enter into adoloscence........whatever we are today is because of them......they warn us of certain kind of boys and girls and ask us to stay away from them.......they asks us to study well.........we thank them by talking to such kind of boys and girls they asked us not to mingle with.......we thank them by showing our mood swings at them and yelling at them when they tries to correct us......we thank them by bunking school or collage....but when the kind of boy or girl they have warned us about betray us......they don't have the 'i told u so' look on their face.........all they have is love......love.......and more love......


they suggests us for taking a certain subject and eventually take up a certain job.......we thank them by taking up a subject and eventually a job we like......still they love us and we thank them by being busy with our friends........collage and eventually work that we do not talk to them atleast an hour a day........they suggest us to marry a certain guy or girl......we thank them by marrying someone of our 'choice' whether they like it or not.......we thank them by being sooooooooo busy with our hubby or wife that we donot meet them or call them atleast one in a month.......


we might be happy with what we had done and with what we are doing right now.......we might be having a good job and be leading a happily married life........but instead of blindly regretting their wishes because we liked something else.......did we ever try to pursuade her and tell them what we like?did we ever try to make them understand how you wanted them to see you.......we could have done that each time we yelled and fought with her.......they understood what we wanted even before we could speak.......we can speak now......we could have told them.....don't you feel guilty for this??


i donno about you all out there.......but i am feeling guilty for whatever i have done against their wishes till today.......i was born after 9 years of ma parents marriage with a lot of difficulty........i know how much i hurted them before i was born and even after i was born.......for all the love ma parents gave me i thanked them by doing what i like........never cared about what they want......i still see the same love in their eyes even after i have done all these......M SORRY MAMMA PAPA.......say sorry to your parents 2 if u do feel guilty and sad........it is never too late 2 say sorry........they still love u and u can still see that love in their eyes........

1 comment:

  1. GOOD pOST Chinky ! Mother Love is UNIQUE in this planet !
    Srinivasa Rao.S
    INDIA

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